In dwelling, live close to the ground.
Our society places a premium on living on higher floors but what are the real benefits? Privacy, Seclusion, Exclusivity? Are these the things you really want from life? No man is an island and I don't think anyone wants a life devoid of connection. Also, if something ever happens to the building, you are the least likely to survive.
In thinking, keep to the simple.
It is easy to outsource our thinking to Google these days. Just about any problem has an answer online. I take this quote to mean, use your own brain and think through things about work, relationship and other important aspects of your life.
In conflict, be fair and generous.
This is Lao Tzu's way of saying Win-Win. If you ever want to dispel conflict, remember to make sure both parties get what they want. If you crush the other party, be ready for their retaliation one day. So to repeat: Be both fair and generous. It'll work every time.
In governing, don't try to control.
When given power, remember that it is not about control but rather leadership to achieve the common mission. Give your subordinates (employees, children, etc) autonomy but at the same time the necessary resources for their success. History has shown that control is not a good long term strategy.
In work, do what you enjoy.
Work comprises of a good part of your life. Why spend that time doing something you don't enjoy. Find the intersection between your strengths and your career. This way you can spend time building on your what you do best and have people pay you for doing that for them.
In family life, be completely present.
How many times do we "spend" time with our loved ones and find our minds somewhere else. We're either thinking about the future things we have to do or the ways we were hurt in the past. If you want a excellent relationship with your family, be completely present with them and enjoy the moment. They'll thank you for it.
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